Do you need to have your photos taken by a professional photographer? Are you updating your business website? Upgrading your Social Networking profiles? Online dating? Whatever the reasons for getting your photos professionally taken, are you nervous and stressed about the whole process? If so, take comfort in knowing you’re not alone. Many (most) people feel the way you do.
When you’re promoting yourself, your business or even just networking with other professionals, how you present yourself online is incredibly important. The first thing people notice, is your photo. And they do form an immediate opinion based on what they see.
Of course you’re worried and concerned about getting it done right. You may feel unhappy with your appearance. You may have had a bad experience with a photographer in the past. You may believe you’re not photogenic. You may be new to getting your photos professionally taken and you don’t know what to expect.
As you’re reading this, are you feeling a jumble of anxiety rising up inside yourself? Take a nice deep breath and read on, because things are about to get better…
What you’re most concerned about isn’t your photos. Your real concern is about the results you want from using those photos. Which is understandable and normal. But most people tend to misdirect those anxieties into extreme worry and overemphasis on the experience of getting photos taken. When that happens, it’s common for people to become hyper-critical of themselves, obsess over details and generally go into some form of panic mode before their photo session.
Here’s the part where it gets better. All of that worry and self-criticism and stress is completely and utterly unnecessary.
Yes, having good photos is important. Yes, you want to look your best. But in the grand scheme of things, getting your pictures taken is not a huge, scary life-event. You’re not appearing on a witness stand, you’re not on an operating table, you’re not writing an exam or giving a public speech. It’s a photo session where all you have to do, is just be yourself. At most, it’s a couple of painless hours out of one day in your life.
Even with that perspective, it may still be difficult to feel relaxed and confident if you’re concerned about how you look, what you’re wearing, how you appear overall, etc. The thing to realize, is that it’s not all on you. When you want good photos, just be positive, pay attention and show up. The rest is up to your photographer. When you hire a professional photographer, our job is to help you look your best.
We’ll provide you with information in advance about how to prepare for your session. Tips on what to wear, styling, what to bring and how to get yourself ready. When you’re given clear guidelines, you just need to follow them. No over-thinking, no obsessing about details. It’s simple and it’s easy to understand. For example: Do wear solid colours, don’t wear bold patterns.
We’ll photograph you in flattering ways. We find your best angles and we know how to emphasize your best features. We make sure you’re in nice light. We make sure you’ve got good body language and that you’re sitting or standing in attractive, comfortable positions. A professional photographer will also edit your images to make sure you look your best. We soften worry lines in your face. We eliminate blemishes. We reduce under-eye circles. You don’t need to worry about any of those things.
Finally, a good photographer knows how to put people at ease. Your photo session isn’t a stressful thing. We won’t bark orders at you or make personal comments. We won’t tell you to do something you don’t want to do. For example, you won’t be asked to: “Stand on one foot, on the top rung of that ladder, close your eyes and sing ‘Let It Go’ from ‘Frozen’ as loudly as you can.”
You’ll be given simple guidance and reasonable instructions. You’ll be asked how you’re doing and how you’re feeling. You’ll be chatted with just like anyone else having a conversation with you. In general, professional photographers are polite, we’re kind and we’re actually pretty nice. We like people; which is why we choose to make our living taking pictures of you.
Having happy clients with attractive pictures is what being a professional photographer is all about. We want you to look and feel great, and it’s our job to make it happen. You can trust us and you don’t need to stress about your photo session. By trusting your photographer and releasing yourself from anxiety and pressure, you’ll be relaxed and confident for your session and in your photos.
Tamea Burd is a professional photographer in Vancouver, BC. She specializes in natural, genuine photos of people at their relaxed and comfortable best. www.tameaburdphotography.com